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Unboxing

Take a peek inside my January Boho Berry Box!

When I started my Butler's Book journey about a year ago a good friend recommended checking out the Boho Berry Tribe on Facebook. This lead me down a wonderful rabbit hole of community and resources. Kara, the owner of Boho Berry, is a wealth of information when it comes to journaling and an inspiration as… Continue reading Take a peek inside my January Boho Berry Box!

Kink

I Got a Kink Crate and I’m BEYOND Shocked in the Best Way Possible!

Last weekend I went to visit fellow kink educator and awesome rope partner-in-crime TheStuntDouble to unbox my newly arrived "Couples" Kink Crate. Honestly, we were totally prepared for some giggles and 50 Shades-style feather tickers and velcro cuffs. Instead, we were shocked by what is actually a pretty damn well-curated box of not just toys… Continue reading I Got a Kink Crate and I’m BEYOND Shocked in the Best Way Possible!

Classes, Education, News, Workshops

Find Me at Florida Power Exchange!

We're just over a week away from one of my favorite events of the year: Florida Power Exchange!!!

Classes, Education

Stability and Flexibility for the Advanced Flyer

I'm super excited to be helping the talented Morgana Meow with her class next weekend at FIRE in Orlando, Florida. If you want to grow your bottoming skills! Here's a little bit about the class! Stability and Flexibility for the Advanced Flyer What's a contortion split? Hollow body? Bum hat? How do I get these… Continue reading Stability and Flexibility for the Advanced Flyer

Identity, Uncategorized

20 Fun little’s Dates Ideas!

I've talked about identifying with a number of labels, sometimes conflicting labels, simultaneously before. One of these is combos is service submissive and little. On one hand, it makes my heart and soul leap for joy when I can take care of my D-type's needs/wants through graceful anticipatory service that seems effortless. On the other, I… Continue reading 20 Fun little’s Dates Ideas!

Education, Uncategorized

A little bit of history

Over the weekend I learned something that made me stop in my tracks: my good friend, a 19yr old college graduate, had never heard of the AIDS Quilt!!! How had she NOT heard of it!? Growing up in the late '80's and '90's, I remember regularly hearing about the quilt in school. The variety of… Continue reading A little bit of history

Education

Con Drop Sucks!

Con Drop is that melancholy feeling you get after an amazing weekend and may include fatigue, feeling lonely, being unfocused, or sad. Sometimes it's fleeting and easy to get through but it can also stick around for a few days. Here's some ways to help you kick Con Drop to the curb!

Identity, Kink, Uncategorized

Paper Kinks!

Confession: I have a paperwork kink! No, I don't mean I like filling out forms in triplicate! Last fall I fell in love with the idea of Butler's Books. I was hesitant because most of my stuff was kept digitally up to that point and I had never successfully used a planner for more than… Continue reading Paper Kinks!

Education, Workshops

Fantasy Fetish Fest 2017

Looking for something fun to do this weekend? Join me at the 3rd annual Fantasy Fetish Fest for workshops, socials, and more. It's free to attend*!  There's a little something for everyone whether it's hanging with the pups poolside, enjoying a cigar with friends, or hitting the Bootblack stands.  I'll be getting my rope on during opening… Continue reading Fantasy Fetish Fest 2017