Identity, Uncategorized

20 Fun little’s Dates Ideas!

I've talked about identifying with a number of labels, sometimes conflicting labels, simultaneously before. One of these is combos is service submissive and little. On one hand, it makes my heart and soul leap for joy when I can take care of my D-type's needs/wants through graceful anticipatory service that seems effortless. On the other, I… Continue reading 20 Fun little’s Dates Ideas!

Identity, Kink, Uncategorized

Paper Kinks!

Confession: I have a paperwork kink! No, I don't mean I like filling out forms in triplicate! Last fall I fell in love with the idea of Butler's Books. I was hesitant because most of my stuff was kept digitally up to that point and I had never successfully used a planner for more than… Continue reading Paper Kinks!

Identity, Kink

Confession of a Fat Rope Slut

Confession: My favorite role in rope play is bottoming and I've allowed the negative assumptions from others about my body keep me from really pursuing it.

Book Review, Identity, Interview, Kink

Darling Discovered: An interview with the author and book review.

On Friday I got a chance to talk with Mrs. Darling, winner of the BDSM Writers Con 2015 Book Contest, about her recently released book Darling Discovered.  It's the kind of book readers really want out of a kinky story: realistic and sexy as hell! Unlike other books that have come out in recent years, Darling Discovered is… Continue reading Darling Discovered: An interview with the author and book review.

Identity

My Big FAT Rebuttal

Recently I read a post about wanting to "swap people's attitude about herpes with their attitude about obesity" on Fetlife. While I understand her wanting to advocate to breaking down the stigma that surrounds herpes using body shaming isn't a way to do it. All it does is turn an entire population off to anything else… Continue reading My Big FAT Rebuttal

Identity

“Open” doesn’t mean “Pass to Cheat”

This morning I came across this article about Mo'Nique, a well known and award winning actress, speaking publicly about her open marriage to Sidney Hicks. It was based off part of an interview the actress had recently done for True Exclusives. Overall it's a good article and Mo'Nique explains her feelings on why monogamy just doesn't make sense to her in… Continue reading “Open” doesn’t mean “Pass to Cheat”

Identity

Sex and Bodies

Go read I'm Fat and I Have Sex With Hot Strangers By Melissa Mankins like right now! Absolutely dig this article. I regularly use the label "fat" and have had people say "oh no you're not!" or "don't talk about your self like that." I'm 5'2" and 210lbs. Whether you like it or not I AM FAT.… Continue reading Sex and Bodies

Identity

~Five Things Your Metamour Wants You To Know~

Originally posted by Ginger over at Poly Nirvana back in 2013 I absolutely think these 5 Things that really do express so much between metamores who may be struggling with the developing squishy feels of their love with someone else.