I fight because I am more than my mental & physical health issues.
I've talked about identifying with a number of labels, sometimes conflicting labels, simultaneously before. One of these is combos is service submissive and little. On one hand, it makes my heart and soul leap for joy when I can take care of my D-type's needs/wants through graceful anticipatory service that seems effortless. On the other, I… Continue reading 20 Fun little’s Dates Ideas!
Confession: I have a paperwork kink! No, I don't mean I like filling out forms in triplicate! Last fall I fell in love with the idea of Butler's Books. I was hesitant because most of my stuff was kept digitally up to that point and I had never successfully used a planner for more than… Continue reading Paper Kinks!
Confession: My favorite role in rope play is bottoming and I've allowed the negative assumptions from others about my body keep me from really pursuing it.
On Friday I got a chance to talk with Mrs. Darling, winner of the BDSM Writers Con 2015 Book Contest, about her recently released book Darling Discovered. It's the kind of book readers really want out of a kinky story: realistic and sexy as hell! Unlike other books that have come out in recent years, Darling Discovered is… Continue reading Darling Discovered: An interview with the author and book review.
In 2016 alone 11 states have seen bills that would restrict access to facilities such as bathrooms, locker rooms, and changing rooms for trans individuals.
Recently I read a post about wanting to "swap people's attitude about herpes with their attitude about obesity" on Fetlife. While I understand her wanting to advocate to breaking down the stigma that surrounds herpes using body shaming isn't a way to do it. All it does is turn an entire population off to anything else… Continue reading My Big FAT Rebuttal
This morning I came across this article about Mo'Nique, a well known and award winning actress, speaking publicly about her open marriage to Sidney Hicks. It was based off part of an interview the actress had recently done for True Exclusives. Overall it's a good article and Mo'Nique explains her feelings on why monogamy just doesn't make sense to her in… Continue reading “Open” doesn’t mean “Pass to Cheat”
Go read I'm Fat and I Have Sex With Hot Strangers By Melissa Mankins like right now! Absolutely dig this article. I regularly use the label "fat" and have had people say "oh no you're not!" or "don't talk about your self like that." I'm 5'2" and 210lbs. Whether you like it or not I AM FAT.… Continue reading Sex and Bodies
Originally posted by Ginger over at Poly Nirvana back in 2013 I absolutely think these 5 Things that really do express so much between metamores who may be struggling with the developing squishy feels of their love with someone else.