Interview, Kink

Talking Mental Health and Kink with KinkyCast

Good morning beautiful people! I'm back among the internet after a week on the high seas (more about that later). While I was away my interview with the wonderful humans over at Kinkycast.com, Woody and Autumn, went live! I share openly about some of my own mental health journey, teaching, and resources that I've found… Continue reading Talking Mental Health and Kink with KinkyCast

Kink

I Got a Kink Crate and I’m BEYOND Shocked in the Best Way Possible!

Last weekend I went to visit fellow kink educator and awesome rope partner-in-crime TheStuntDouble to unbox my newly arrived "Couples" Kink Crate. Honestly, we were totally prepared for some giggles and 50 Shades-style feather tickers and velcro cuffs. Instead, we were shocked by what is actually a pretty damn well-curated box of not just toys… Continue reading I Got a Kink Crate and I’m BEYOND Shocked in the Best Way Possible!

Identity, Kink, Uncategorized

Paper Kinks!

Confession: I have a paperwork kink! No, I don't mean I like filling out forms in triplicate! Last fall I fell in love with the idea of Butler's Books. I was hesitant because most of my stuff was kept digitally up to that point and I had never successfully used a planner for more than… Continue reading Paper Kinks!

Identity, Kink

Confession of a Fat Rope Slut

Confession: My favorite role in rope play is bottoming and I've allowed the negative assumptions from others about my body keep me from really pursuing it.

Book Review, Uncategorized

American Savage, Pissing off People One Essay At A Time

American Savage: Insights, Slights, and Fights on Faith, Sex, Love, and Politics I've been a fan of Dan Savage after stumbling on his Savage Love podcast a few years ago. I found his outspoken, passionate, often against the grain approach refreshing and inspiring. When his 2013 book American Savage: Insights, Slights, and Fights on Faith,… Continue reading American Savage, Pissing off People One Essay At A Time

Kink, News

Fetcon 2016 in Review

Fetish Con (aka Fetcon) is an interesting beast in the world of kinky cons. Unlike a lot of events I go to, this one is primarily focused on the people who make kink their living. Models and producers making connections and shooting, parties by the pool, classes on kink business and intros to modeling and… Continue reading Fetcon 2016 in Review

Book Review, Identity, Interview, Kink

Darling Discovered: An interview with the author and book review.

On Friday I got a chance to talk with Mrs. Darling, winner of the BDSM Writers Con 2015 Book Contest, about her recently released book Darling Discovered.  It's the kind of book readers really want out of a kinky story: realistic and sexy as hell! Unlike other books that have come out in recent years, Darling Discovered is… Continue reading Darling Discovered: An interview with the author and book review.

Book Review, Kink

Quick and Dirty Poly Primer

Do you or your partner suffer from TL:DR (Too Long Didn't Read) but want/need to find useful information to help you not fuck up poly right off the bat? Check out my review of Eight Things I Wish I'd Known About Polyamory: Before I Tried It and Frakked It Up by Cunning Minx.

Kink

Keeping Track of the Good Little Girls and Boys

One of the things I loved in my previous Daddy/girl relationship was the chore system we created. It wasn't elaborate but a great way for Sir to give some encouragement for some of my regular chores that I may have been a little less then excited about. Here's some options you can use to track tasks for your sub, regardless if they are little or not!

Book Review, Kink, Leather

Book Review: The Leatherboy Handbook

*disclaimer: 1) This review is on the 1st edition of this book which is no longer in print. An expanded version is now available under the new title The Complete Leatherboy Handbook. 2) I am not a gay male. The Leatherboy Handbook (1st ed.) by boy Vincent L. Andrews published by The Nazca Plains 2008. I… Continue reading Book Review: The Leatherboy Handbook