On the night of June 11, 2016, I spent a humid summer night in Orlando at The Woodshed. After a good night with friends, I headed home to Tampa just before 2am. When I woke on the morning of the 12th my phone was exploding with messages. I called my mom who had left many… Continue reading LoveisLoveisLove


Rope Resources!

Hello! So this is a few weeks late (SORRY!) but I promised my class at Florida Power Exchange that I'd share a list of resources for getting their feet wet or wetter in rope. Now, these are just places to start and build your knowledge but getting some hands-on time with an experienced rope person… Continue reading Rope Resources!


Reposted: Confessions of a Fat Rope Slut

Hello again! This afternoon I want to re-share a post I made about a year and a half ago. It's as much a chance for me to re-share an important message with you all as it is a reminder to myself that I'm stronger than I think and feel sometimes. A reminder that the thoughts,… Continue reading Reposted: Confessions of a Fat Rope Slut


Florida Power Exchange 2018: You Are Not Alone

When you think of your home event what comes to mind? For me it's a space where I can reconnect with friends and family, recharge, grow, and play. For me, that event is Florida Power Exchange!¬† Focused on building relationships and personal growth this year's FPE is sure to have something for everyone. Now in… Continue reading Florida Power Exchange 2018: You Are Not Alone


FPE’s Next Top Presenter

Do you have what it takes to be Florida Power Exchange's Next Top Presenter? If you have a passion you want to share with the community but you've had limited teaching opportunities this is your chance to shine. On Thursday night of FPE, Contestants will have 7 mins to share a bit about themselves, give… Continue reading FPE’s Next Top Presenter

Identity, Uncategorized

20 Fun little’s Dates Ideas!

I've talked about identifying with a number of labels, sometimes conflicting labels, simultaneously¬†before. One of these is combos is service submissive and little. On one hand, it makes my heart and soul leap for joy when I can take care of my D-type's needs/wants through graceful anticipatory service that seems effortless. On the other, I… Continue reading 20 Fun little’s Dates Ideas!

Education, Uncategorized

A little bit of history

Over the weekend I learned something that made me stop in my tracks: my good friend, a 19yr old college graduate, had never heard of the AIDS Quilt!!! How had she NOT heard of it!? Growing up in the late '80's and '90's, I remember regularly hearing about the quilt in school. The variety of… Continue reading A little bit of history

Identity, Kink, Uncategorized

Paper Kinks!

Confession: I have a paperwork kink! No, I don't mean I like filling out forms in triplicate! Last fall I fell in love with the idea of Butler's Books. I was hesitant because most of my stuff was kept digitally up to that point and I had never successfully used a planner for more than… Continue reading Paper Kinks!