Education

Merry Kitty Creations Scholarship

After the transformational experiences I’ve experienced in 2018 by attending several education-based events, I’m pleased to announce The Merry Kitty Creations Scholarship!! In an effort to help offset some of the costs associated with attending some of these events and make them just a bit more accessible, applications will be accepted at MerryKittyCreations.com beginning Dec 1st and… Continue reading Merry Kitty Creations Scholarship

Kink

I Got a Kink Crate and I’m BEYOND Shocked in the Best Way Possible!

Last weekend I went to visit fellow kink educator and awesome rope partner-in-crime TheStuntDouble to unbox my newly arrived "Couples" Kink Crate. Honestly, we were totally prepared for some giggles and 50 Shades-style feather tickers and velcro cuffs. Instead, we were shocked by what is actually a pretty damn well-curated box of not just toys… Continue reading I Got a Kink Crate and I’m BEYOND Shocked in the Best Way Possible!

Book Review, Identity, Interview, Kink

Darling Discovered: An interview with the author and book review.

On Friday I got a chance to talk with Mrs. Darling, winner of the BDSM Writers Con 2015 Book Contest, about her recently released book Darling Discovered.  It's the kind of book readers really want out of a kinky story: realistic and sexy as hell! Unlike other books that have come out in recent years, Darling Discovered is… Continue reading Darling Discovered: An interview with the author and book review.

Kink

Keeping Track of the Good Little Girls and Boys

One of the things I loved in my previous Daddy/girl relationship was the chore system we created. It wasn't elaborate but a great way for Sir to give some encouragement for some of my regular chores that I may have been a little less then excited about. Here's some options you can use to track tasks for your sub, regardless if they are little or not!

Book Review, Kink, Leather

Book Review: The Leatherboy Handbook

*disclaimer: 1) This review is on the 1st edition of this book which is no longer in print. An expanded version is now available under the new title The Complete Leatherboy Handbook. 2) I am not a gay male. The Leatherboy Handbook (1st ed.) by boy Vincent L. Andrews published by The Nazca Plains 2008. I… Continue reading Book Review: The Leatherboy Handbook

Identity, Kink, Leather

My First Earned Leather

In 2013 I attended Beyond Leather and had my first experience with people who identified as "leather. With the structure, etiquette, and sense of community I wanted to learn more. So I started to talk to people who identified as leather and reading up on any sources I could. I attended a number of events,… Continue reading My First Earned Leather

Kink, News

Better than the book: Things 50 Shades the movie did well.

We know the negatives of the 50 shades books. The writing is atrocious. The author doesn't represent the "real" BDSM lifestyle. They don't warn about the extra dark side. We could go on. Honestly though, the fact the series has become so popular isn't entirely bad! Here are some reasons the 50 Shades movie isn't as… Continue reading Better than the book: Things 50 Shades the movie did well.

Kink

Taking care of yourself: Aftercare and drop

Private scenes, public parties, or kinky cons can give us a fantastic rush of happy emotions, new friends, and new experiences. It creates a natural high of endorphines, your bodies natural anti stress hormones, that can feel amazing physically, emotionally, and mentally. With the ups comes though the downs and some people experience "drop." "Drop"… Continue reading Taking care of yourself: Aftercare and drop

Kink, News

Morpheous’ Bondage Extravaganza

Like Bondage? Like Rope? Want to see 12 hours of amazingly talented rope artist come together in the worlds LARGEST public display of rope bondage? Join us October 4th in Toronto, Orlando, and on the web for Morpheous' Bondage Extravaganza! Additionally performances from the San Francisco event held at The Armory Upper Floor will be… Continue reading Morpheous’ Bondage Extravaganza