Classes, Education, News, Workshops

Find Me at Florida Power Exchange!

We're just over a week away from one of my favorite events of the year: Florida Power Exchange!!!

Classes, Education

Stability and Flexibility for the Advanced Flyer

I'm super excited to be helping the talented Morgana Meow with her class next weekend at FIRE in Orlando, Florida. If you want to grow your bottoming skills! Here's a little bit about the class! Stability and Flexibility for the Advanced Flyer What's a contortion split? Hollow body? Bum hat? How do I get these… Continue reading Stability and Flexibility for the Advanced Flyer

Identity, Kink, Uncategorized

Paper Kinks!

Confession: I have a paperwork kink! No, I don't mean I like filling out forms in triplicate! Last fall I fell in love with the idea of Butler's Books. I was hesitant because most of my stuff was kept digitally up to that point and I had never successfully used a planner for more than… Continue reading Paper Kinks!

Identity, Kink

Confession of a Fat Rope Slut

Confession: My favorite role in rope play is bottoming and I've allowed the negative assumptions from others about my body keep me from really pursuing it.

Book Review, Identity, Interview, Kink

Darling Discovered: An interview with the author and book review.

On Friday I got a chance to talk with Mrs. Darling, winner of the BDSM Writers Con 2015 Book Contest, about her recently released book Darling Discovered.  It's the kind of book readers really want out of a kinky story: realistic and sexy as hell! Unlike other books that have come out in recent years, Darling Discovered is… Continue reading Darling Discovered: An interview with the author and book review.

Identity

My Big FAT Rebuttal

Recently I read a post about wanting to "swap people's attitude about herpes with their attitude about obesity" on Fetlife. While I understand her wanting to advocate to breaking down the stigma that surrounds herpes using body shaming isn't a way to do it. All it does is turn an entire population off to anything else… Continue reading My Big FAT Rebuttal

Identity

“Open” doesn’t mean “Pass to Cheat”

This morning I came across this article about Mo'Nique, a well known and award winning actress, speaking publicly about her open marriage to Sidney Hicks. It was based off part of an interview the actress had recently done for True Exclusives. Overall it's a good article and Mo'Nique explains her feelings on why monogamy just doesn't make sense to her in… Continue reading “Open” doesn’t mean “Pass to Cheat”

Identity

Sex and Bodies

Go read I'm Fat and I Have Sex With Hot Strangers By Melissa Mankins like right now! Absolutely dig this article. I regularly use the label "fat" and have had people say "oh no you're not!" or "don't talk about your self like that." I'm 5'2" and 210lbs. Whether you like it or not I AM FAT.… Continue reading Sex and Bodies

Education

TEDtalk: Guy Winch: Why we all need to practice emotional first aid

As a followup to my pieces on Choosing Peace and Self Care I would like to share this amazing video from the great people over at TED. It's from psychologist and author Guy Winch discussing the importance of "emotional hygiene." As practitioners of sex positive lifestyles remembering to take time for emotional self care is very important. Appropriate self… Continue reading TEDtalk: Guy Winch: Why we all need to practice emotional first aid