Today while I was preparing to teach a rope class my brothers and sisters were creating a Wall of Love around one of our local Drag Queen Story Hour (DQSH) events.
We're just over a week away from one of my favorite events of the year: Florida Power Exchange!!!
I've talked about identifying with a number of labels, sometimes conflicting labels, simultaneously before. One of these is combos is service submissive and little. On one hand, it makes my heart and soul leap for joy when I can take care of my D-type's needs/wants through graceful anticipatory service that seems effortless. On the other, I… Continue reading 20 Fun little’s Dates Ideas!
Confession: I have a paperwork kink! No, I don't mean I like filling out forms in triplicate! Last fall I fell in love with the idea of Butler's Books. I was hesitant because most of my stuff was kept digitally up to that point and I had never successfully used a planner for more than… Continue reading Paper Kinks!
Confession: My favorite role in rope play is bottoming and I've allowed the negative assumptions from others about my body keep me from really pursuing it.
American Savage: Insights, Slights, and Fights on Faith, Sex, Love, and Politics I've been a fan of Dan Savage after stumbling on his Savage Love podcast a few years ago. I found his outspoken, passionate, often against the grain approach refreshing and inspiring. When his 2013 book American Savage: Insights, Slights, and Fights on Faith,… Continue reading American Savage, Pissing off People One Essay At A Time
On June 28th, 1969 New York City Police raid the Stonewall Inn sparking six long days of riots and a turning point in the fight for gay rights. A year later the first Gay Pride Parades were held in NYC, Chicago, and LA. 47 years later Pride is celebrated not only across the US but across the… Continue reading 1969. 2016. Still Fighting for Our Right to LOVE.
On Friday I got a chance to talk with Mrs. Darling, winner of the BDSM Writers Con 2015 Book Contest, about her recently released book Darling Discovered. It's the kind of book readers really want out of a kinky story: realistic and sexy as hell! Unlike other books that have come out in recent years, Darling Discovered is… Continue reading Darling Discovered: An interview with the author and book review.
In 2016 alone 11 states have seen bills that would restrict access to facilities such as bathrooms, locker rooms, and changing rooms for trans individuals.
Recently I read a post about wanting to "swap people's attitude about herpes with their attitude about obesity" on Fetlife. While I understand her wanting to advocate to breaking down the stigma that surrounds herpes using body shaming isn't a way to do it. All it does is turn an entire population off to anything else… Continue reading My Big FAT Rebuttal