Community, Kink, News, Uncategorized

Join Me at Metro Kink!

Are you on the list?  Join some of Tampa's finest for a night of sexy delights you're sure to remember at KINK! - An Art Affair!

Interview, Kink

Talking Mental Health and Kink with KinkyCast

Good morning beautiful people! I'm back among the internet after a week on the high seas (more about that later). While I was away my interview with the wonderful humans over at Kinkycast.com, Woody and Autumn, went live! I share openly about some of my own mental health journey, teaching, and resources that I've found… Continue reading Talking Mental Health and Kink with KinkyCast

Uncategorized

Rope Resources!

Hello! So this is a few weeks late (SORRY!) but I promised my class at Florida Power Exchange that I'd share a list of resources for getting their feet wet or wetter in rope. Now, these are just places to start and build your knowledge but getting some hands-on time with an experienced rope person… Continue reading Rope Resources!

Education, Workshops

Fantasy Fetish Fest 2017

Looking for something fun to do this weekend? Join me at the 3rd annual Fantasy Fetish Fest for workshops, socials, and more. It's free to attend*!  There's a little something for everyone whether it's hanging with the pups poolside, enjoying a cigar with friends, or hitting the Bootblack stands.  I'll be getting my rope on during opening… Continue reading Fantasy Fetish Fest 2017

Identity, Kink

Confession of a Fat Rope Slut

Confession: My favorite role in rope play is bottoming and I've allowed the negative assumptions from others about my body keep me from really pursuing it.

Kink, News

Fetcon 2016 in Review

Fetish Con (aka Fetcon) is an interesting beast in the world of kinky cons. Unlike a lot of events I go to, this one is primarily focused on the people who make kink their living. Models and producers making connections and shooting, parties by the pool, classes on kink business and intros to modeling and… Continue reading Fetcon 2016 in Review

Book Review, Identity, Interview, Kink

Darling Discovered: An interview with the author and book review.

On Friday I got a chance to talk with Mrs. Darling, winner of the BDSM Writers Con 2015 Book Contest, about her recently released book Darling Discovered.  It's the kind of book readers really want out of a kinky story: realistic and sexy as hell! Unlike other books that have come out in recent years, Darling Discovered is… Continue reading Darling Discovered: An interview with the author and book review.

Kink

Keeping Track of the Good Little Girls and Boys

One of the things I loved in my previous Daddy/girl relationship was the chore system we created. It wasn't elaborate but a great way for Sir to give some encouragement for some of my regular chores that I may have been a little less then excited about. Here's some options you can use to track tasks for your sub, regardless if they are little or not!

Identity, Kink, Leather

My First Earned Leather

In 2013 I attended Beyond Leather and had my first experience with people who identified as "leather. With the structure, etiquette, and sense of community I wanted to learn more. So I started to talk to people who identified as leather and reading up on any sources I could. I attended a number of events,… Continue reading My First Earned Leather

Kink, News

Better than the book: Things 50 Shades the movie did well.

We know the negatives of the 50 shades books. The writing is atrocious. The author doesn't represent the "real" BDSM lifestyle. They don't warn about the extra dark side. We could go on. Honestly though, the fact the series has become so popular isn't entirely bad! Here are some reasons the 50 Shades movie isn't as… Continue reading Better than the book: Things 50 Shades the movie did well.