Hello! So this is a few weeks late (SORRY!) but I promised my class at Florida Power Exchange that I'd share a list of resources for getting their feet wet or wetter in rope. Now, these are just places to start and build your knowledge but getting some hands-on time with an experienced rope person… Continue reading Rope Resources!
Looking for something fun to do this weekend? Join me at the 3rd annual Fantasy Fetish Fest for workshops, socials, and more. It's free to attend*! There's a little something for everyone whether it's hanging with the pups poolside, enjoying a cigar with friends, or hitting the Bootblack stands. I'll be getting my rope on during opening… Continue reading Fantasy Fetish Fest 2017
Confession: My favorite role in rope play is bottoming and I've allowed the negative assumptions from others about my body keep me from really pursuing it.
Fetish Con (aka Fetcon) is an interesting beast in the world of kinky cons. Unlike a lot of events I go to, this one is primarily focused on the people who make kink their living. Models and producers making connections and shooting, parties by the pool, classes on kink business and intros to modeling and… Continue reading Fetcon 2016 in Review
On Friday I got a chance to talk with Mrs. Darling, winner of the BDSM Writers Con 2015 Book Contest, about her recently released book Darling Discovered. It's the kind of book readers really want out of a kinky story: realistic and sexy as hell! Unlike other books that have come out in recent years, Darling Discovered is… Continue reading Darling Discovered: An interview with the author and book review.
One of the things I loved in my previous Daddy/girl relationship was the chore system we created. It wasn't elaborate but a great way for Sir to give some encouragement for some of my regular chores that I may have been a little less then excited about. Here's some options you can use to track tasks for your sub, regardless if they are little or not!
In 2013 I attended Beyond Leather and had my first experience with people who identified as "leather. With the structure, etiquette, and sense of community I wanted to learn more. So I started to talk to people who identified as leather and reading up on any sources I could. I attended a number of events,… Continue reading My First Earned Leather
We know the negatives of the 50 shades books. The writing is atrocious. The author doesn't represent the "real" BDSM lifestyle. They don't warn about the extra dark side. We could go on. Honestly though, the fact the series has become so popular isn't entirely bad! Here are some reasons the 50 Shades movie isn't as… Continue reading Better than the book: Things 50 Shades the movie did well.
Private scenes, public parties, or kinky cons can give us a fantastic rush of happy emotions, new friends, and new experiences. It creates a natural high of endorphines, your bodies natural anti stress hormones, that can feel amazing physically, emotionally, and mentally. With the ups comes though the downs and some people experience "drop." "Drop"… Continue reading Taking care of yourself: Aftercare and drop
Last weekend the Tampa Chapter of Hitchin' Bitches had the opportunity to host DespoenaCalypso (DC) for a two-day intensive. Across the seven couples the class had a mixed range of abilities coming into the weekend. The group was across the skill spectrum and honestly this made me a bit nervous. I've been to other intensives… Continue reading Hitchin’ Bitches Tampa Intensive with DespoenaCalypso