Identity, Kink

Confession of a Fat Rope Slut

Confession: My favorite role in rope play is bottoming and I've allowed the negative assumptions from others about my body keep me from really pursuing it.

Identity, Kink

Why YES! Fat girls do it too.

I am a fluffy girl. By fluffy I mean I'm fat by society standards at 5'2 200lbs. This is not a negative comment against myself just a statement of the current, shifting, state of my physical body. While I used to be thinner I have always been curvy and though at first glance you might… Continue reading Why YES! Fat girls do it too.

Identity, Kink

Owning Your Labels

I have a love/hate relationship with labels. They are nothing more than descriptors we use to classify things, people, and places. For the most part we choose how we self identify: straight, gay, bi, kinky, leather, Dominate, submissive, switch. Unfortunately, far too many people put emphasis on strict "true" definitions and not personal ones. These… Continue reading Owning Your Labels