Identity

~Five Things Your Metamour Wants You To Know~

Originally posted by Ginger over at Poly Nirvana back in 2013 I absolutely think these 5 Things that really do express so much between metamores who may be struggling with the developing squishy feels of their love with someone else.

Education

TEDtalk: Guy Winch: Why we all need to practice emotional first aid

As a followup to my pieces on Choosing Peace and Self Care I would like to share this amazing video from the great people over at TED. It's from psychologist and author Guy Winch discussing the importance of "emotional hygiene." As practitioners of sex positive lifestyles remembering to take time for emotional self care is very important. Appropriate self… Continue reading TEDtalk: Guy Winch: Why we all need to practice emotional first aid

Book Review, Kink, Leather

Book Review: The Leatherboy Handbook

*disclaimer: 1) This review is on the 1st edition of this book which is no longer in print. An expanded version is now available under the new title The Complete Leatherboy Handbook. 2) I am not a gay male. The Leatherboy Handbook (1st ed.) by boy Vincent L. Andrews published by The Nazca Plains 2008. I… Continue reading Book Review: The Leatherboy Handbook

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Kink

If Common Sense Was Kinky

So you're headed to your first party or dungeon night. You may be as excited as a kid in a candy shop but don't let your excitement get the best of you.  Here are some seemingly common sense things you can do to ensure you're invited back. 1) Ask Questions  Particularly during your first few events… Continue reading If Common Sense Was Kinky

Kink

Want to get out of the kinky kiddie pool?

So you’ve watched episodes of CSI, read 50 Shades, and enjoyed spicing up your sex life but now you think you want more. Where do you start? The Internet! The internet is for porn after all! There is all kinds of information out there and sifting through it can be overwhelming. Here’s a quick list of… Continue reading Want to get out of the kinky kiddie pool?