Identity

“Open” doesn’t mean “Pass to Cheat”

This morning I came across this article about Mo'Nique, a well known and award winning actress, speaking publicly about her open marriage to Sidney Hicks. It was based off part of an interview the actress had recently done for True Exclusives. Overall it's a good article and Mo'Nique explains her feelings on why monogamy just doesn't make sense to her in… Continue reading “Open” doesn’t mean “Pass to Cheat”

Education

Great Comic on Non Monogamy from EverydayFeminism!

It's awesome that we're starting to see more ETHICAL non-monogamy in the media. Unfortunately, it currently rarely highlights non hetero, cis, primary couples. Plus we don't really talk about the couples privilege that accompanies that setup. Luckily for us, Joamette Gill of EverydayFeminism created this great, short, visual to help explain some of the OTHER… Continue reading Great Comic on Non Monogamy from EverydayFeminism!

Identity

~Five Things Your Metamour Wants You To Know~

Originally posted by Ginger over at Poly Nirvana back in 2013 I absolutely think these 5 Things that really do express so much between metamores who may be struggling with the developing squishy feels of their love with someone else.

Book Review, Kink

Quick and Dirty Poly Primer

Do you or your partner suffer from TL:DR (Too Long Didn't Read) but want/need to find useful information to help you not fuck up poly right off the bat? Check out my review of Eight Things I Wish I'd Known About Polyamory: Before I Tried It and Frakked It Up by Cunning Minx.

Uncategorized

Stood up

Whether you're going solo or you're going with another partner getting stood up kinda sucks. You're excited to meet the new people, to see if you click, enjoy a night out. Then nothing. Tonight was a first for me: I got legitimately stood up. I had been chatting with a gentlemen who was interested in… Continue reading Stood up

Kink

Poly, Swinger, Somewhere in between

We live in a world of societal dichotomies. You're either a boy or a girl. You're black or white. You're gay or straight. You're Monogamous or Non-Monogamous. When you step back though and take a moment to really look at these labels though we find there is a lot of grey in between. Within the… Continue reading Poly, Swinger, Somewhere in between