Unboxing

Boho Berry March Unboxing & Review

March is upon us and the 3rd Boho Berry Box has been making it's way to subscribers! Here's a glimpse at what we got this month and my thoughts on the subscription so far.   The Loot!   Boho Berry Member's Only March Tracker, Sticker Sampler, and Lucky You Colorable Sticker   The tracker and… Continue reading Boho Berry March Unboxing & Review

Unboxing

Take a peek inside my January Boho Berry Box!

When I started my Butler's Book journey about a year ago a good friend recommended checking out the Boho Berry Tribe on Facebook. This lead me down a wonderful rabbit hole of community and resources. Kara, the owner of Boho Berry, is a wealth of information when it comes to journaling and an inspiration as… Continue reading Take a peek inside my January Boho Berry Box!

Kink

I Got a Kink Crate and I’m BEYOND Shocked in the Best Way Possible!

Last weekend I went to visit fellow kink educator and awesome rope partner-in-crime TheStuntDouble to unbox my newly arrived "Couples" Kink Crate. Honestly, we were totally prepared for some giggles and 50 Shades-style feather tickers and velcro cuffs. Instead, we were shocked by what is actually a pretty damn well-curated box of not just toys… Continue reading I Got a Kink Crate and I’m BEYOND Shocked in the Best Way Possible!

Book Review, Uncategorized

American Savage, Pissing off People One Essay At A Time

American Savage: Insights, Slights, and Fights on Faith, Sex, Love, and Politics I've been a fan of Dan Savage after stumbling on his Savage Love podcast a few years ago. I found his outspoken, passionate, often against the grain approach refreshing and inspiring. When his 2013 book American Savage: Insights, Slights, and Fights on Faith,… Continue reading American Savage, Pissing off People One Essay At A Time

Identity

“Open” doesn’t mean “Pass to Cheat”

This morning I came across this article about Mo'Nique, a well known and award winning actress, speaking publicly about her open marriage to Sidney Hicks. It was based off part of an interview the actress had recently done for True Exclusives. Overall it's a good article and Mo'Nique explains her feelings on why monogamy just doesn't make sense to her in… Continue reading “Open” doesn’t mean “Pass to Cheat”

Book Review, Kink

Quick and Dirty Poly Primer

Do you or your partner suffer from TL:DR (Too Long Didn't Read) but want/need to find useful information to help you not fuck up poly right off the bat? Check out my review of Eight Things I Wish I'd Known About Polyamory: Before I Tried It and Frakked It Up by Cunning Minx.

Kink

Keeping Track of the Good Little Girls and Boys

One of the things I loved in my previous Daddy/girl relationship was the chore system we created. It wasn't elaborate but a great way for Sir to give some encouragement for some of my regular chores that I may have been a little less then excited about. Here's some options you can use to track tasks for your sub, regardless if they are little or not!

Book Review, Kink, Leather

Book Review: The Leatherboy Handbook

*disclaimer: 1) This review is on the 1st edition of this book which is no longer in print. An expanded version is now available under the new title The Complete Leatherboy Handbook. 2) I am not a gay male. The Leatherboy Handbook (1st ed.) by boy Vincent L. Andrews published by The Nazca Plains 2008. I… Continue reading Book Review: The Leatherboy Handbook

Kink, News

Better than the book: Things 50 Shades the movie did well.

We know the negatives of the 50 shades books. The writing is atrocious. The author doesn't represent the "real" BDSM lifestyle. They don't warn about the extra dark side. We could go on. Honestly though, the fact the series has become so popular isn't entirely bad! Here are some reasons the 50 Shades movie isn't as… Continue reading Better than the book: Things 50 Shades the movie did well.

Classes, Kink

Hitchin’ Bitches Tampa Intensive with DespoenaCalypso

Last weekend the Tampa Chapter of Hitchin' Bitches had the opportunity to host DespoenaCalypso (DC) for a two-day intensive. Across the seven couples the class had a mixed range of abilities coming into the weekend. The group was across the skill spectrum and honestly this made me a bit nervous. I've been to other intensives… Continue reading Hitchin’ Bitches Tampa Intensive with DespoenaCalypso