We’re just over a week away from one of my favorite events of the year: Florida Power Exchange!!!
Looking for something fun to do this weekend? Join me at the 3rd annual Fantasy Fetish Fest for workshops, socials, and more. It’s free to attend*! There’s a little something for everyone whether it’s hanging with the pups poolside, enjoying a cigar with friends, or hitting the Bootblack stands. I’ll be getting my rope on during opening ceremonies and again on Saturday afternoon for a self-suspension demo!
*small fee for evening social space
Fetish Con (aka Fetcon) is an interesting beast in the world of kinky cons. Unlike a lot of events I go to, this one is primarily focused on the people who make kink their living. Models and producers making connections and shooting, parties by the pool, classes on kink business and intros to modeling and photography, and of course the awards ceremony. I’ve been attending this con on and off for the last 11 years in various roles including attendee, booth babe, presenter, and staff*. It’s given me an interesting view of an event that attracts such a diverse crowd. Those 11 years have been hit or miss. I’ve had some good experiences there but I’ve also had some that had me rethinking whether it was an event I’d ever attend/recommend again. I’m happy to say that this year changed a lot of those conflicting feelings.
When I first started attending the con was kind of balanced with a place for the newbies, the pros, and the lifestylers. As the years went on I felt a shift that left those of us who do this because it’s what we love in the dust. It wasn’t an unreasonable shift since the con is focused on the industry side of things but it was really disappointing to get dolled up, grab my gear and a girl to tie up then walk into a dungeon and find that the play space was basically useless. This year this entire situation made a complete 360! With the introduction of a dungeon provided and run by Florida Power Exchange guests of fetcon had a safe, beautiful, and energized space to indulge our fantasies. During the day there were a number of classes and demos to expand the horizons of those interested. At night Daddy Michael had the perfect mix of music and lighting to get us in the mood for some great play. It was the dungeon I always wished was at this otherwise fun event.
Other improvements that I noticed over past years was the variety of vendors. I go to a lot of cons and see a lot of same venders at each. This year Fetcon had a GREAT mix of regulars and new blood. My one complaint here was that Bad Dragon didn’t bring any product to sell!!! They did however give out some amazing swag (review coming this week!) and they were more than willing to answer any of your questions and let you play with their toys. DJ Kitty Pow Pow was phenomenal out at the pool and kept us all enjoying ourself well into the night. Security* was also on point this year which meant people felt significantly more relaxed to be themselves within the Con spaces.
Lastly the hotel staff was AMAZING! I chatted with a number of them over the course of the weekends from bellhops to housekeeping to coordinators and everyone was fantastic. A good con can be soured from shit hotel staff but the smiling, truly helpful individuals I interacted with kept my weekend relaxed and enjoyable.
Overall I can say this year was so much more than I expected and I’m so happy I decided to attend. Thank you to Genesis and her entire staff for putting the lifestyle back into this kinky event. I can’t wait for next year!
*I was part of the security team this year. I have to send props to the amazing leaders who coordinated the team and made sure things were actually secure no bullshit experience this year.
This past weekend I got to join 25 other Turtles from HarmonyUS for a cruise to Mexico. It was a time for individual and group growth, reflection, and bonding. One of my personal goals for the trip was to tie in Mexico. I got to at two different locations and with the help of HarmonyWolf was able to capture some of the beach tie!
During our day in port we hit a few different places. First up was San Geruasio ruins. After wandering amongst the various buildings I found a spot just past Nohoch Nah, a temple dedicated to the feathered serpent god Ku’kul’kan, which seemed to inspire me. I am an Aerial Dragon after all! I didn’t have any specific tie in mind. Instead I just went where the ropes guided me. It was fantastic to just take a few moments to do rope in a place with so much history and energy.
Next we stopped at a local beach for a bit of snorkeling and lunch. We had about five minutes before we had to head back to the ship so I snagged HarmonyWolf and went to one of the rockier areas near the beach. It was just a quick mermaid tie but it was super fun to rope bomb on a beach in Mexico. Many thanks to him for taking some great shots as the waves jumped up the rocks! Next time we’ll definitely plan for more rope opportunities.
Rope, Relationships, Circus OhMY! Here’s the current status of my fall line up!